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Hello... Welcome family and friends. This blog was started so you could follow our adoption journey to our daughter in China...Crystina Luz ChenLi. Now, it's to follow our everyday adventures with 2 active young children, who are growing SO fast, Crystina & Ethan and 2 playful Yorkies, Lola and Bertha.

Monday, September 1, 2008

More pictures...of our day

Before you start reading, we have posted 2 other posts before this one......just wanted to let you know....... ; )

Ni Hao from Kumning, Yunnan...Crystina's birth province. Well today started bright and early, we were up at 4:00am to 4:15am, we went downstairs to the lobby to meet the other 3 families at about 5:40am or so. The other 13 families had to leave the hotel by 5:30am. Our flight left at about 8:15am and we landed in Kunming at 11:45am or so...we went straight to the hotel and had to wait until 2:30pm to go down and meet our guide......so we checked our e-mail, read comments, ordered lunch, got everything that we needed and checked it twice, three times. And then we headed down at about 2:15pm, our guide, Lily, was already there waiting for us. We took a taxi to the Civil Affairs (I'll talk about the driving later on in this post...after the pictures). We arrived there within 20-30 minutes and started doing paperwork, Crystina wasn't there yet, she arrived 5-7 minutes after we started the paperwork. Of course, as soon as I laid eyes on her, I was crying, not hysterical like most of you probably think, I was SO calm about everything, I didn't want to scare her... Edgar got very nervous when he saw his girl for the first time, he even got teary-eyed. The lady from the orphanage sat right next to us, but we can't just go up to her and take our child...no, we have to wait until they say it's time. So, our guide had us do more paperwork (can you imagine, nervous hands signing VERY important documents????) and then, all of a sudden, she's like "Okay" and we were like "Okay, what?" Okay meant, you can get your child...so we made sure our guide recorded "The moment" and Edgar took pictures, VERY emotional for us both!

Crystina came to me (Barbara) with no problem, she didn't smile at first, she was very serious. And then I tried my hardest for her to go with Edgar...and no, she didn't want to. Edgar was so great about it, it's good that we don't force her on each other. We were warned that the child would prefer one parent over the other for some time, hopefully it won't be for a long time. But when I had to sign (my life) documents, he was able to hold her, she was VERY serious. When I got her back in my arms, I started to play with her and that's when I got the smiles....then with my camera I would take a picture of her and show her...she was loving that, more smiles then. I really don't remember what I was doing with her but I had her giggling...that was the BEST!

Well, here are some little facts about her that we have noticed....she definitely has the Miranda forehead (after her Tio Nathan) and the Figueroa gap, not as big as her grandpa Carlos & cousin (Alvani) but she has one. She sweats when she sleeps like her cousins (Angelica & Ayden), and, it seems like, she is willing to taste anything, like her cousin (Joshua). So, needless to say, she is definitely OUR daughter!

She is SO cute and adorable and we can't wait to take her home!! These 9 days are going to be SO long! We thank GOD for blessing us with this beautiful daughter! NOW we know why we had to wait so long........but that wait time as disappeared!

Enjoy the pictures...lots of them.

At the airport with our Beijing guide, Sherry...she was GREAT and so funny!
Our view from the plane, on our way to Kunming...it was stunning!! It's amazing at all the beauty that GOD has created! You all were with me in spirit looking at this awesome part of the world.
On our way to Kunming...do we look tired or what?
Our hotel room...yep, one bed this time.
The moment she was placed in my arms!
Yep, that's me crying....but I kept my cool. ; )
Do we look alike or what????
Signing some documents...
Signing more documents...
One of the first smiles!
Barbara's thumb print...
Edgar's thumb print...
Crystina's foot print...
what big feet...just kidding!! She's got little feet.
Daddy finally holding his baby girl!
She's not too happy.
Daddy beaming with joy!
So serious...
Feel asleep on the ride back to the hotel.
So peaceful...she had a rough day!
Daddy kissing her "goodbye"...he went to the store to buy her some things........and the shopping has begun!!! ; )
Eating Cheerios! She LOVES them!
She's pointing at the camera, because she knows it's her picture.
at the computer...
First feeding...
Yummy...she's really enjoying it!
Like father...like daughter!

Hope you enjoyed all these pictures! I definitely have TONS more but I can't post them all.

Well, for the next few days, we have lots of free-time...maybe need to do some paperwork here and there but I think we did most of it today. So, we'll be enjoying our time with our new daughter! Thank you for ALL the prayers, but please keep them coming! We still have LOTS of bonding to do and a very long flight home.

Oh, the driving....where do I start?? I thought Puerto Rico driving was crazy, China beat them by a long shot. They drive cars, buses, scooters, bikes, all on the street together and then people are walking everywhere...it's SO scary, I just don't look. The bigger the vehicle, the more right of way you have. To us, there have been many "close" calls. So scary!!!

Please, don't forget to comment...every single one for the past few days, have made me CRY! And I know the best is yet to come. (no pressure!) ; )

Miss everyone dearly! We send our love, all the way from China to everyone! God Bless!!

Signing off for the first time as a family of 3.......Edgar, Barbara & Crystina! That felt GREAT!! : )

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love the pictures. They made me cry. I caint believe it. I couldnt read without tears coming out. I am so proud of yall. Yall are going to be the best parents. I can already see it. She does have the Miranda forhead like her cousins (angelica and Ayden).lol.Thats to funny. She has such a cute smile. I love it.Caint wait to see her.
God bless the 3 of you.
Love always
TIA
ANNABEL

Anonymous said...

I enjoy reading your post. It is an amazing experience and it all happens so fast! How great that Crystina did not cry...God has been preparing her for this special moment. Love the pictures...keep them coming.:-) You take care and enjoy every moment while there. Learn as much as you can from her province. Don't know if you did or someone told you..to get a newspaper from her provience on Gotcha day..or tomorrow. You might want to include in a scrapbook/lifebook when you make one. Ok, let you go. Sigo orando por ustedes y mientras vivo su experiencia recuerdo la nuestra. Cuidense y que Dios los continue bendiciendo. Cariñosamente, Diana

Anonymous said...

Yep me too, I'm balling. Wow Barbara, how awesome is that! I'll be praying for your safe return. Love you guys, Melissa & fam.

Anonymous said...

Barbara y Jay no saben la felicidad de todos aca de que gracias a Dios pudieron sentir en sus brazos y corazones a la bebe. Definitivamente compartimos con ustedes este momento especial y continuamos orando al Senor y Maria para que les continue alumbrando su camino colmandoles de lindas bendiciones. tu madrina Hilda y Luis

Anonymous said...

I cry at every gotcha moment. She's perfect!!! Gina Dx

Anonymous said...

I finally got 4 hours of sleep had to turn phone off, every one was calling , for the past few night it has been restless sleep, finally after I spoke to you I had peace in my heart and I could lay down and rest, so funny I ended up dreaming about her and us together.In my dream I held her. My face is so puffy , being doing lost off crying (happy tears).
I am so look forward to the day I can hold all 3 of my grandbabies in my arms at once.
With much Love Mom Lao Lao)

Anonymous said...

She is so beautiful. I have not been at a computer all day, so I rushed back to the office so I can see if you posted anything and then I saw the most beautiful family ever. Congrats!
Amy-AWAA

Anonymous said...

We are all crying here!!!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this special occassion with us!!! She's so beautiful and she looks so happy with you guys!! God definitely does things awesome! What a blessing! Enjoy your time together! Hope to read more about Crystina in these days :) God bless you 3! Prayers and blessings are flowing your way :)
Love ya!
Tito, Taina, Vanessa & Veronica

Anonymous said...

Yep pretty much did it for me. I was crying too!! I am so happy for you. Can not wait to see the family...You will be in my thoughts.

Andrea said...

She is SO precious! What a beautiful smile. Have a wonderful week just enjoying her at getting more of those little smiles on camera.

Love, Steve & Andrea & LeighAnna

Anonymous said...

well I'm finally able to sit at the computer and enjoy the smiling pictures of Crystina, your momma has been hogging the computer.
My favorite picture is of her pointing at the camera. will print all these in the morning at work.
can't wait to have her in my arms .
lots of kisses,
Dad/grandpa

Anonymous said...

DEFINITIVAMENTE DIOS LOS A BENDECIDO CON TANTA FELICIDAD AL TENER POR FIN A SU HIJA EN SUS BRAZOS...QUE BELLA!!! ME ENCANTA LA FOTO QUE CRYSTINA AND HER DADDY ARE SLEEPING, SO CUTE!! LOL TITI CYNTHIA

Anonymous said...

LLEGO EL GRAN DIA TAN ESPERADO DIOS MIO GRACIAS POR HABERLE PERMITIDO A MIS SOBRINOS EDGAR Y BARBABA EL MAS GRANDE DESEO DE SER PADRES CON UNA BELLA HIJA QUE VIENE ACOMPANADA DE BENDICIONES, ALEGRIAS Y MUCHAS COSAS MAS... Disfruten cada momento y segundo de este sueno hecho realidad. Que Dios los siga bendiciendo y acompanandolos en este viaje y siemrpe. Muchos besos y abrasos de Titi Wandy, Tio Jr., Edgar y Jenovie Marie